You might have included that info in the beginning.
Did the rod bend because it was too long and bent when the bucket dumped, and the rod contacted the end of the boom, bending the rod as the bucket rolled further to dumped? Pushing with the bucket dumped can do that on some loaders, if there are no stops on the bucket. They can also pull glands out of barrels or the rods out of the pistons. Very seldom will the hydraulics bend a ram, it is generally an outside force that causes bending.
When the bucket is rolled fully back (rams retracted) and the bucket physically stopped by the frame/linkage, are the rods fully retracted or are they still out a bit? If they are still out a bit that will give you the center-to-center closed length pin dimension. By measuring the amount of rod showing it should get you close to the right barrel length.
Using the part number (for the original and substitute cylinders) it appears Parts ASAP has one and they give the rod diameter and stroke for a starting point. Here is a link.
2250 bucket cylinder
rod: 28.57mm (1-1/8")
stroke: 446.73mm (18-3/8")
Edited to add: The online parts book shows the same bucket cylinder was used on the 1850 loaders.